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Gisèle Pelicot’s A Hymn to Life is a raw account of reckoning, resilience, and reclaiming a life

Pelicot writes of her remarkable steadiness as she confronts the devastating reality of what was done to her

💡 Gisèle Pelicot: You likely saw her name all over news headlines in 2024 during the landmark trial in France in which her own husband and more than 50 men were convicted in a mass assault case that shook the world. Two years later, Pelicot — now an activist — reclaims her own story in a fearlessly honest memoir: A Hymn to Life. Translated from French by Natasha Lehrer and Ruth Diver, Pelicot lays bare the deeply intimate process of coming to terms with the horrors inflicted on her by the man she once believed to be a good, loving husband while rallying behind the resounding message that “shame has to change sides.”

What to expect: Pelicot opens her memoir right at the turning point: when her husband, Dominique, was caught and arrested for filming under women’s skirts in a supermarket. Soon after, police deliver the harrowing news. They had found thousands of pictures and videos of her being drugged, unconscious in her own bed, and assaulted by a horrifying number of men — all of which she has no recollection of. From there, Pelicot takes us through past and present, revisiting her childhood, the death of her mother when she was nine, meeting Dominique at 19, a grief-stricken family history, and the current nightmare she feels her difficult past has prepared her for.

What we liked: Pelicot never allows herself to sink too deeply into her suffering, nor does she frame the memoir around victimhood alone. Instead, she writes of her remarkable steadiness as she confronts the devastating reality of what was done to her while granting herself the grace to process the collapse of a 50-year-long marriage. Through intimate reflections on her past, she approaches grief very profoundly yet still manages to grasp onto happy memories. The memoir is also unexpectedly literary, with vivid and evocative prose that captures the powerful hold of memory and the painstaking process of making sense of an unimaginable past.

The verdict: In just under 200 pages, A Hymn to Life is both a riveting read and a profoundly moving account of grief, memory, and resilience. The memoir flies by, even as certain parts carry immense emotional weight, ultimately leaving readers with a sense of hope and, above all, admiration for Pelicot’s courage and honesty in shaping her own narrative under the glare of public scrutiny. If you’re looking for an emotionally powerful memoir told with grace and incredible sincerity, A Hymn to Life is an excellent place to start.

WHERE TO GET IT- You can find the eBook on Kindle and Kobo.